On this Valentine’s Day, it seems fitting to share A Love Story… (it’s only 2 minutes, make sure to watch until the end before reading 😉 )
For years I’ve imagined how I’d write this post. I’d share with the world how long I’d been dreaming about this day. How wanted and loved this first baby and first grandchild is. How incredibly grateful and humbled I am to finally become a mother. How I’ve planned the nursery design in every home I’ve lived in for the past 10 years, hoping each would be the one I’d get to bring my baby home to.
For the past 10 years I’ve waited patiently, watching cousins and friends and strangers excitedly announce their news on social media. I watched those babies grow up into big brothers and sisters and sent my congratulations as their families grew.
Most of you reading this will share in our happiness, but for some it will be another painful blow. This post is for you.
I know what it’s like to watch others celebrate something you want so desperately. I understand the sinking feeling of waking up to yet another Mother’s Day. I still remember those first cramps coming on every month like stabbing knives, robbing me of another chance. I lost a marriage within the hopelessness, and I didn’t know how I could survive either.

Fast forward nearly four years after hitting rock bottom, and everything has changed. I’d relive every moment of heartache, all the years “wasted” to be where I am now.

Back then I didn’t understand—I could have never imagined the detour my life would take to lead me here. This is how and when it was meant to happen.

While it may be a decade later than planned, I wouldn’t change this timing for the world. At nearly 34 years in, I feel like life is just beginning. There is so much more of the story to write… for all of us, no matter where we are in our journey.
For those of you struggling, know that one day, there will be a moment where you stop and realize “Aha… so this is why everything happened as it did… it all makes sense now.” I’m here on the other side, telling you that everything will be okay. In fact, better than okay—even better than what you’ve planned.
The pain you feel now doesn’t compare to the joy that is coming. Trust the timing of your life.
Sending a little extra love to the world today,
Diane Taylor says
Oh Jenna Sue and Lucas – this makes me smile so big today, the day of love 🙂 I am turning 60 in a few days but I still remember that heartache after every pregnancy ended with no baby. 3 times 🙁 But then a miracle. And I just knew my baby was finally coming. I had my sweet Jonathan in 1987, and he was/is the love of my life. Little did I know that Jonathan’s story would end suddenly on March 1 2012 when his apartment caught fire. Still…..if I had it to do all over again, I would. I would rather have 24 years with Jonathan than nothing at all. Being a mother was the best thing I have ever done. Thank you for writing this post for those still waiting on their miracle.
I will be praying for you both and your sweet baby and for all in that season of waiting. Trust in God’s timing, as hard as that may be.
xxxooo
Diane Taylor from Baltimore MD (dmpfromri on IG)
Jenna Sue says
Diane, I remember you sharing this story with me years ago after my first big announcement and thinking what a strong woman you were to have been through that and have such perspective. I love that you can focus on the wonderful memories of your time together and see what a blessing it was. You are such a kind soul and I am eternally grateful to have you here! <3
Jenna Sue says
Also — HAPPY BIRTHDAY! What an amazing milestone.
Bethany P. says
that is a beautiful post! Congrats!
wizzer says
Congratulations on this wonderful news! The best is yet to come…
Michelle says
What a beautiful story and video.
Your child will be blessed beyond measure to have parents so in love with each other and their baby. Congratulations and much love always!
Jenna Sue says
Thank you so much Michelle! We have high hopes for this little one <3
Denis says
We have been so happy that you are part of our family (and we yours). You and Lucas are both smart, hard working and just plain good–I know you’ll be amazing parents.
Jenna Sue says
<3
Kristin says
You are such an amazing young lady Jenna. A beautiful and heartfelt share. Congratulations to you both.
Jenna Sue says
Thank you for the kind words, Kristin!
Stormie says
So so excited for you guys!! It took my husband and I, 6 years before we got pregnant with our first (our daughter) and it is so hard waiting but man I feel it also makes you enjoy parenthood a little more. You have a tad bit more appreciation when the days are a little longer. Congratulations Jenna and Lucas! I can’t wait to follow you all on another adventure!!
Jenna Sue says
More appreciation indeed… so glad it happened this way. Thank you Stormie! <3
Shauna says
Petite Jenna,
I’m not the type of person who gets all choked up about things, and you are actually a complete stranger (except for all you share on your site). But having followed your path for quite a number of years now, I got pretty teary-eyed reading this post.
You two will be remarkable parents. Thanks for sharing the love!
Jenna Sue says
Thank you Shauna! I’ve been teary eyed since finding out and especially after feeling the love today! <3
Jodi says
Best DIY ever! Congratulations!!
Jenna Sue says
Best DIY for sure! 😉
Shelly (The Prairie Chick) says
Congratulations! What a joyous adventure you are now embarking on. Wishing your little family much love, happiness, and peace.
Jenna Sue says
<3
Cynthia says
What a lovely video? And your story… it made me cry as I read thru it.
Congrats !!! I’m super happy for you both.
Thanks for the amazing inspirations you share with us.
Jenna Sue says
Thank you for sharing in our joy, Cynthia! <3
Laura says
My goodness, I love the way you openly share your life (pain and joy both) with us.
Enjoy every moment !
Jenna Sue says
<3 <3
Arli says
This is such wonderful news, and what a beautiful way to share it. So very happy for you both.
Kaitlin M says
Congratulations Jenna & Lucas!! I have been a follower for years and this news makes me so happy! We are still on our journey but your words about timing really spoke to me. Thank you for your encouraging words for those of us still struggling and sending best wishes to your little family!!
Jenna Sue says
Enjoy the process, Kaitlin! It will make your time so much more special when it finally arrives <3
Marie says
Congratulations Jenna! So happy for you both!