On this Valentine’s Day, it seems fitting to share A Love Story… (it’s only 2 minutes, make sure to watch until the end before reading 😉 )
For years I’ve imagined how I’d write this post. I’d share with the world how long I’d been dreaming about this day. How wanted and loved this first baby and first grandchild is. How incredibly grateful and humbled I am to finally become a mother. How I’ve planned the nursery design in every home I’ve lived in for the past 10 years, hoping each would be the one I’d get to bring my baby home to.
For the past 10 years I’ve waited patiently, watching cousins and friends and strangers excitedly announce their news on social media. I watched those babies grow up into big brothers and sisters and sent my congratulations as their families grew.
Most of you reading this will share in our happiness, but for some it will be another painful blow. This post is for you.
I know what it’s like to watch others celebrate something you want so desperately. I understand the sinking feeling of waking up to yet another Mother’s Day. I still remember those first cramps coming on every month like stabbing knives, robbing me of another chance. I lost a marriage within the hopelessness, and I didn’t know how I could survive either.

Fast forward nearly four years after hitting rock bottom, and everything has changed. I’d relive every moment of heartache, all the years “wasted” to be where I am now.

Back then I didn’t understand—I could have never imagined the detour my life would take to lead me here. This is how and when it was meant to happen.

While it may be a decade later than planned, I wouldn’t change this timing for the world. At nearly 34 years in, I feel like life is just beginning. There is so much more of the story to write… for all of us, no matter where we are in our journey.

For those of you struggling, know that one day, there will be a moment where you stop and realize “Aha… so this is why everything happened as it did… it all makes sense now.” I’m here on the other side, telling you that everything will be okay. In fact, better than okay—even better than what you’ve planned.
The pain you feel now doesn’t compare to the joy that is coming. Trust the timing of your life.
Sending a little extra love to the world today,
Amy Kaminski says
So happy for you Jenna! It gives me hope. My daughters is your age and mr. Right hasn’t shown up. There have been several heartaches and now she feels her time for a family may never come. I pray that God’s timing will bring her joy of a true love and family one day soon. Keep spreading your joy. Its contagious!
Jenna Sue says
30’s is so young, Amy! She has so much of her life ahead of her. She will appreciate these years of freedom and independence someday. I hope she can enjoy the season of life she’s in now–it really is an amazing one!
Crystal says
Congratulations. Timing is everything. You will be a wonderful Mother and your child is already loved by the two hearts who created him or her. Abundant Blessings to the three of you.
Jenna Sue says
Thank you, Crystal <3
Sandra Pace says
What a beautiful video.!I’m amazed by you! So happy to hear such wonderful news! Sending lots of love to your beautiful little family!
Candy says
Congratulations Jenna and Lucas!!
What a beautiful way to tell us ……
Julia @ Hooked on Houses says
What a beautiful video to go along with such a happy announcement. I’m thrilled for you guys. Yay!! xo
Breauxtherlylove says
Jenna & Lucas
Congratulations!!! My journey started on the opposite end, i had a unplanned pregnancy. It was a long road to accepting what was coming but i love what you said, “oh this is why everything happened as it did… it all makes sense now.” i had that moment, For me it was finding God and his loving grace, I know now that i would never have the peace and love for myself without having to go through the Journey of bringing home that beautiful girl of mine. Here i am 7 years later, married to the love of my life,( Renovating our first home with all your amazing DIYS) with our 3 children. YES! don’t loose hope, “The joy is coming”
Amber says
Legit the truth right here. I went through a break up and ultimately rock bottom. Now planning a wedding to the sweetest loving human ever. Everything happens for a reason is so true!! No regrets about the past because I’d never be where I am now
Congratulations to you and Lucas!!
Taryn says
Congratulations!
I have been going through something similar, for just over a year now, having not even what others would consider a ‘scare’. The confusion, the heartbreak and the grief every single freaking month. I am so happy you are in a place to finally get to celebrate.
My story this month a little different. As I received my first positive test two days before Valentine’s day, to only have it confirmed a day later, it was not my time.
I appreciate your candor and your openness to sharing your difficult journey and wish you all the best in the coming months, and of course, can’t wait to see the nursery in your beautiful new home!
Lauren Haddad says
Congrats to you both! I have been following for years- this is the best blog post you’ve written! 🙂
Anne says
Congratulations! Tough circumstances in life make for strong women, and you are definitely one of them. I appreciate you sharing your story throughout the years. My husband and I also struggle with infertility and had to turn to IVF to grow our family. My first little baby is kicking away in my belly as I type, due in May. The years of trying were HARD but the two of us have so much appreciation for those trials that we fought through and for what is to come.
Best wishes for a healthy pregnancy! Do you have the baby’s room picked out? Looking forward to seeing what you come up with for the nursery!
P.S. Get yourself a maternity belt if you are going to keep DIYing during pregnancy. I’m also remodeling a house and I wish I got one sooner!
Jenna Sue says
Congratulations to you, Anne <3 And yes, the nursery has been mostly designed in my head before we even started building the house, LOL. Can't wait to share soon.
Kayla says
Congratulations! I’m curious, how do you get all the drone footage for your trips? Especially the ones that feature the two of you in them? Seems like a great way to document your memories!
Jenna Sue says
Thank you Kayla! We took a drone with us for most of our travels in 2017.
Sandy Louis❤️ says
I am so happy for the both of you and your little miracle. Continued blessings
Stacy says
Congratulations! As someone that is going through the same struggles, seeing this post makes me so happy and gives me so much hope! Infertility sucks! So excited for you!
Gina says
Congratulations! So excited for you! I got chills watching the video.
Lu Ann Montgomery says
Congratulations to you and Lucas! Even your announcement is so creative, just like you! We never know where our journey will take us. In my case, after years of infertility (and watching many friends have babies), we were led to adopting a baby and now have a beautiful 26 year old son!
Best wishes for a healthy pregnancy and exciting years ahead!